Day of Delirium #338 - The Necessary Privilege

Sorry that I have only been reposting items from The Book of Awakening lately. I've been very busy at work and these items have been one of the few distractions that speak to me and that I want to share so they can speak to you.

"Not to feel is to stop the heart from breathing."

So often, we war against sadness as if it were an unwanted germ, and pine after happiness as if it were some promised Eden, whose gate is keyed to the one secret flaw we need to rectify in order to be worthy. Even our Constitution attempts to rescue us from the hard full journey of individuation, ensuring what no government can ensure, the soul's contentment; suggesting that happiness is our inalienable right, while implying that to experience sadness leaves us somehow deprived.

Yet it is no mistake that to suffer means to feel keenly. For to feel deeply and precisely with full awareness is what opens us to both joy and sorrow. It is the capacity to feel keenly that reveals the meaning in our experiences.

If you are thirsty, you can't dip your face to the stream and say, "I'll only drink the hydrogen and not the oxygen." If you remove one from the other, the water cannot remain water. The life of feeling is no different. We cannot drink only of happiness or sorrow and have life remain life.

The truth is, that as the lungs make use of the air we breathe, the heart makes use of the things we experience. Thus, to be alive is to feel. This is our right. To feel keenly is our necessary privilege.

• Recall your most recent moment of happiness and what opened you to it.

• Recall your most recent moment of sadness and what opened you to that.

• Let each quiet breath bring these feelings together the way rivers merge into a sea.

• Without trying to keep them separate, feel your happiness and sorrow merge in the depth of your being.

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The Book of Awakening ~ Mark Nepo